Really? I'm not even talking about being a wimp or not being good around girls. I'm talking about people crying and hugging their legs in front of a girl they like, because of mere self-pity with basically no trauma attached to it other than getting dumped by a girl he has known for *1* month.
I'm a total wimp myself and probably just as bad around girls and wouldn't notice a flirt when my life depended on it, but damn.